Thursday, June 4, 2015

Three year old Sepanx

When I started this blog, Paige was just three months old, and now she is turning three. I was not able to really pay attention to this virtual motherhood world that I created mainly because I have to juggle a full time corporate career and being a mom.

I would have preferred to work from home.

Up to this day I still cry every morning that I have to leave my daughter while she is still sleeping or worst if I have to leave her awake and pleading for me to stay. Various "takas" and "takip" moves were already mastered by my mother and though I know that my little tot will be super safe under my mother's care, I would still bleed to death every time I leave her. That's why I have this rule that every non-working hours are family time. They are all for Paige and my hubby (if daddy is not busy).

One morning, I was about to maneuver a trusted escape move when Paige talked to me and said, "Mommy I am sorry please don't go." I couldn't leave her like that because it's as if she is telling me that she is sorry for everything that she has ever done wrong (if there is any) so I won't leave her. Needless to say, another absent was added from my list. :)

Working Mom's I salute all of you. I admire your courage and strength to bear the agonizing thought of leaving your children because you know that helping your husband is important too.

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Make your home kid friendly!



How can you adapt your home for new additions?


Whether you are starting or growing your family, your home must adapt to new arrivals. Regardless of whether you live in a suburban house in Muntinlupa, a city condo Makati or Taguig, or a villa next to a beach, every home needs to make changes to become child-proof.
Global property portal Lamudi Philippines (www.lamudi.com.ph) asks the question, how can you make your home family-friendly?

Make Safety a Priority

While the interior design of your home is important, safety should be the focal point when preparing for a new arrival to your household. This includes installing childproof gates at the top and bottom of staircases, making sure that outside of the house is inaccessible to the child, and keeping anything out of reach that may be deemed dangerous.

Hide Switches

Today, it is possible to buy shockproof switches and sockets for all electrical outlets. Curious kids are often drawn to plugholes, so invest in advanced designs with automatic shutters, which make it impossible for your children to access the sockets.
Don’t Scrimp on Storage

Children tend to need a lot of thingsfrom toys to clothes, strollers to cribs. Smart storage solutions will not only help make space for all of their essentials, but provide a difficult-to-reach area for those precious pieces of pottery. Make sure you have enough room, by installing additional shelves, baskets, and hangers, and making the most of underbed storage space.

Protect Your Walls
It is inevitable that walls will gather food stains and crayon marks over time. Get ahead of the game by introducing blackboard paint into your interior design plan. This way, drawings can be left on the walls, and you can even use the space to leave notes and lists.






Avoid Sharp Edges

If you have always dreamed of having a circular bed, now would be the time to make the investment. Sharp corners are common enemies for small children, who often bump their heads when exploring the house. If circular furniture is not your style, buy special edge protectors and corner guards to avoid incidents.

Consider Color

While white may once have been your color of choice, you cannot escape the fact that it is not practical for your family home. Preparing your home for a new addition often means moving away from more neutral shades. Darker-colored carpets will hide those muddy footprints as your children get older and more adventurous, while bolder colors are said to stimulate brain growth and development in newborns.

Upcycle

When your children are old enough, your favorite coffee table will be turned upside down and used as a boat, and the sofa will become a trampoline. To avoid the risk of ruining fancy furniture, modify old pieces that can handle the wear and tear.

Make the Most of Your Space


It is important to create individual spaces that your kids can call their own, including dens, arts and craft areas, and playrooms. Make sure you also have a place for the whole family to spend time together. Whether this is a bigger dining table, or a comfortable, relaxing space in your living room, as your family grows, your home space needs to adapt.


Go for Durable Materials

Young children running around mostly means that a lot of your precious home furnishings are in for disaster. Choosing durable materials will not only protect your home from your energetic tots but can also withstand the everyday wear-and-tear.

Be Artistic

Infuse art to your home designs by framing the colorful doodles of your little one. Apart from accenting your home with a very personal touch it will also save memories that will be nice to look back when your kids are older. You may also add inspirational family quotes on the wall. It will accessorize your home and also a subtle way to instill values to your child.